Comments on: To Be Or Not To Be: TRUTHFUL

By: Robert

Robert — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 05:44:49 +0000

Great article. I have struggled with this for many years. I do eventually tell women once I can see we are getting serious. But in the beginning I keep it to myself as I don’t know if the relationship is ever going to develop into something.

Is that closeted? Yes. But closeted behavior isn’t necessarily wrong. Being bi, particularly hetero leaning bi, is really, really complicated in this society. It is ever so much easier being gay. It’s very clear. But hetero lifestyle guys, who appear straight, like hanging with the boys, can really have a rough time coming out to their friends.

A few of my very close friends know and that’s it.

I’d like to see more on this subject matter.

By: Nisei Ivory

Nisei Ivory — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 22:12:56 +0000

Ok….”I” can handle the truth. However, most people cannot. I know lots of guys who like men AND women and they are not ashamed to tell. I just think honesty is best because you can find someone who appreciates just that. There are lots of women who are comfortable within themselves to allow a man to be with them and another man. Personally I feel that honesty allows a person to choose if they can deal with it or not.

Then there are the dangers of women that try to “convert”. That’s when the ish hits the fan so to speak. I could go on and on but I think that’s enough! : )

By: KatNahid Ebrahimi

KatNahid Ebrahimi — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 04:08:06 +0000

This is a very interesting topic. Makes me wonder want needs to be done to change social norms?